On Looking (Prov. 27:20)
Recently in several different conversations with women, the idea of whether or not there is any harm to be found in “looking” has come up. Window shopping, browsing without aim, Pinteresting in boredom, Facebook scrolling for hours at a time, watching cheesy romantic Hallmark movies—call it what you will and add your own poison—but we women have many different labels we slap on something that the world tells us is harmless. But is it really? Today in my reading, I came across a verse in Proverbs that made me think of these conversations: “Sheol [death] and Abaddon [hell] are never satisfied, nor are the eyes of man ever satisfied” (27:20, NASB). Think about that one for a minute. The looking never causes us to be satisfied, and I would argue it increases dissatisfaction within us. The more we look and dwell on something that is worldly, the natural inclination is to desire it. Another word for desiring something we do not have is coveting , and coveting when used in a “g...